#Done! 👊 Time to take all this #glam off 💋and lay next to the mr. 😴Gotta wake up in 4hrs for #FathersDay #BBQ with my family & relatives. 😘✌
Hey @missyxmartinez, I haven’t forgotten about you! You’re such a total sweetheart! Hope you had a blast popping your cherry @sf_hustlerclub!
My current situation… Lol. It was a pleasure working w/ you @samantha_saint! Twitter @misssaintxxx @sf_hustlerclub #hustlerclubsf #workisplay
Making sure this big guy goes night night while I stay up and #work. #ilovemypitbull #apbt #titan #goodnight and #sweetdreams
My coworker and my soul sister, Nani! Mwuah! I can’t wait til baby 👶🍼Jayden arrives! Tell ninang (your mom) that her dip was delicious!
RP: My friends are fucking amazing! I asked her for cleavage & I got this message!! #boobies #cleavage (keeping her my little secret) =P
I like this shot in Do Me Now by K. Roosevelt ft Hit-Boy.
Getting ready for a very long day.
So focused on cleaning his bowl of chicken. #titan #tablemanners #apbt #pitbulls
The 4 Steps for Dealing with a Difficult Challenge
1. Accept and let go.
Accept your life as it is now. It doesn’t matter how many or what kind of challenges you are facing. See them as opportunities for growth. This way there is no point in feeling bad about them anymore. They are here to help you.
Accept yourself as you are now. You may have flaws, you may have made mistakes that have contributed to the situation you are in now, but that is not important. Let go of your past and forgive yourself. All that counts is what you do in this moment!
Let go of your fears, stress, and frustrations toward this situation and the people involved, even if you think someone else is to blame for your situation. Feeling anger or hatred toward this person will only (negatively) affect yourself.
How do you accept and let go of things? With a simple exercise called meditation. After four years of daily meditation I can vouch for the fact that it is a very effective tool for getting rid of stress, negativity, frustration, and anything else that is not serving you. Learning to meditate is the biggest gift you can give yourself.
2. Observe and decide.
Observe the situation without letting your emotions take over. You are now able to analyze the situation by just looking at the facts. (This is a lot easier than it sounds when you have a regular meditation practice.)
Decide what the best approach is for this situation and create a plan of action.
3. Face your fears and take action.
Tackling your challenges usually includes facing one or more fears. You can try to avoid facing your fears, but at some point they will circle back into your life and you’ll have to face them again. You can ignore fear, but you can’t escape it.
Learn to be courageous and deal with it once and for all. Being courageous doesn’t mean you become fearless. Everybody experiences fear. It’s just that courageous people are the ones who are brave enough to constantly face their fears.
On YouTube there is a Will Smith interview in which he states: “If something frightens me, I have to do it. I will not let it control me!”
Taking action is the most important step in this whole process. It is also the step where most people get stuck. But by creating the right mindset this becomes a lot easier. Because the emotions that usually frighten you and maybe even paralyze you will no longer have any effect on you, or the effect will be greatly reduced.
4. Practice gratitude.
You may label problems as such because dealing with them takes you out of your comfort zone. Dealing with them in the correct manner means you are growing as a person. So, learn to be grateful for the challenges in your life, because they make you stronger.
My fellow #scorpio @made_by_madi! I’m so proud of your accomplishments and motivation! I still remember that conversation we had before your birthday, last year! I adore your work and passion and soul! You’ve always been a sweetheart no matter what! Lots of love to you! #follow #beauty #makeupartist #skills #bestface my model ladies book her for shoots!
My mom just got home from work. 9am - 9pm and Titan is the sweetest! She sat next to me and he got up on the chair to sit next to her and placed his paw on her arm, like those “everything ok?”
